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Kindness

Kindness

How you can be a little kinder toward the elderly. In the last few months our world has changed radically from what we once knew. No one could have guessed even in February of 2020 that we would have a global pandemic and mass demonstrations about race inequality at...

What you don’t know when someone dies can hurt you.

What you don’t know when someone dies can hurt you.

If a loved one died, would you have the resources needed to settle their estate? A relative of mine passed away suddenly of a heart attack in his early 50's. He was single and no one else knew what insurance company he used, which bank and brokerage firms he had...

Keeping your parent safe from far away

Keeping your parent safe from far away

Making sure your parents are safe is more difficult from out of town but it can be done. Your older parents may say they are "fine" but you suspect that is not true. If you think things are not as rosy as they claim but you live a drive or plane ride away, there are...

Sibling Rivalry and Mom

Sibling Rivalry and Mom

Four Solutions I once heard the saying, ”Why can one mother take care of four children, but four children cannot take care of one mother?” When it is time that a parent needs help and roles between parent and children are reversed, relationships between siblings can...

Four no/low cost ways to help those with dementia remember

Four no/low cost ways to help those with dementia remember

No need for fancy devises when paper and pen will do Let's be honest, dementia suffers can drive their family or caregiver crazy by asking the same question over and over. They certainly don't mean to cause exasperation, but it happens and makes them and everyone...

When will revision is elder abuse: prevent it from happening.

When will revision is elder abuse: prevent it from happening.

Revising someone's will to your benefit when they are not capable of making sound decisions is abuse. We hear the horror stories of an older adult, with some degree of dementia, dies and leaves their entire estate to a distant relative or caregiver, leaving out close...

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